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With love and humility. Perhaps it would be easier for you to write it rather than say it. You can be there with her when she reads it. But just tell her the truth, building on whatever other self-disclosures you made along the way. How she responds will determine your next steps. She may be ok with your building your relationship without requiring her active involvement. I'm just guessing. But God bless you and congratulations that one more image of God that bears your genes has been given life and breath by God! If you want more help, contact me again through this website and I'll be glad to help.
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