For follow-up discussion and general commentary on the topic. Comments are sorted chronologically.
I definetly think a person can find another member of the opposite sex attractive. Don't forget, what I may seem attractive or a nice looking person, may be different to someone else. Our neighbour is a very handsome man. yes is he attractive, I would say so, but in no means do i even have the slightest thought of having any form of lustful relationship with him. My husband even commented, that he looked like a handsome movie star - whom he named, and yes, he does. other than being friendly neighbours and acting Christ like around him, is all I want to be.