I'd love to see some discussion on this topic.
1 Corinthians 12:4
NKJV - 4 There are diversities of gifts, but the same Spirit.
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Prophecy edifies the church, tongues edify only the speaker (1 Corinthians 14:4–5). So the loving thing to do is to refrain from speaking in tongues and let the preacher build up the congregation in love through his sermons.