1 Corinthians 13:5
ESV - 5 Or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful.
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After reading about keeping no list of wrongs, I was touched by this message. Thank you Jesus for caring for us and giving us your Word. In my life, I have tried to be forgiving, but need to try harder. 490 times is a lot of forgiveness to a spouse, friend or child. The golden rule applies to all kinds of relationships, and I hope my family, colleagues and friends will be forgiving to my shortcomings too. Thank you for publishing this discussion of not keeping a laundry list of hurts.